Ahhh: finally back on line. Thanks Bob and Smokie!
Valve springs: stock will be fine at my rpm and boost level. Will replace the valves, guides and springs with new when I do the build.
MAF: don;t need it, Haltech works off MAP/TPS
Throttle body: yes, it would be nice to have a slightly larger unit, but for the ease of the build (remember, this is trying to be a build anyone can do with parts easily obtainable) and the fact that with boost at .6 bar for this size engine, the plate size is fine.
Head bolt: NO, going with HMR studs..the block will break before those studs..something like 150 ft/lbs torque on head nuts will keep leaks to a minimum.
Valve job: if you are in the detroit area, I know a great guy who does awsome headwork. Will even fit American turbo valves, guides , seats, and stronger springs all cut to appropriate length/size for probably less than stock. His US made valves have long, uncut stems and can be fitted to any length.
Anyway, I will try to keep some posting here, but in the last three weeks, I had to move the build over to rennlist '951 turbo' section. still under same name 'xrad' with pics and all. many turbo guys over there who are very helpful as well.