remember: magnet size does not imply response or excursion. With today's new magnet compositions, small magnets can make big sounds (cell phones for ex) In the past, bigger was better. If you can, listen to a friend's system or go to a hig end stereo store and demo everything. Then find a cheaper knockoff offering the same quality..
For the best speakers, look for some variation of rubber surround (not foam), cast alloy basket (not plastic or pressed steel), kapton or better voice coil design, avoid coaxial systems and buy component systems (allows better tuning with crossover), and speaker material of some type of composite plastic/ glass -resin (not variations of paper)
I would suggest min of 5 in diameter speaker for lower door and, I think I posted this somewhere else, silk tweeters offer a better sound quality than metal.
passive crossovers are fine if the are made of quality components and have a good design. Look for adjustable crossover to help match your system.
Original wiring(in my car) has a capacitor for the tweet behind the lower plastic door panel. Don't wire up these and a new crossover by accident.
Just my .02 dollar....