you need to use a pliable component, like the "accordion" formed rubber to isolate the vibration - no closed cell solid membrane, nor high durometer rubber (like a hose or something) will do the job - wrapping it with tape, or anything that, which merely fills the gap, will not work - all those things do is make a more solid connection between the vibrating component and the shift knob
fluid might work, if you could figure out how to get that in there
injecting something that dries pliable might too (like a very soft silicone - softer than RTV) - to do this though, you will need to completely remove the shifter assembly, invert it, inject it, let it dry, and then reinstall
you will also not be able to use the set screws in the shift knob, so keeping it on the shifter will be totally dependent upon the tension limits of the injected compound
good luck
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