first, let me say that this forum is absolutely about discussions and online social bonds, so you're not off base there at all
however, it is also an information archive, much like a library
that being said, and at the extreme risk of sounding pedantic, but hopefully to shed a little light on some things, try to step outside your own situation for a minute and realize that this site has a wealth of archived information in it - we have gone to great lengths to organize it so that you can flip to the area you want to know something about and read what will likely answer your questions without you having to even ask them - many things have already been discussed - some areas have been extensively pursued
all i think that jay was trying to say is to do some searching before the knee-jerk reaction to just ask a question hoping for an instant answer - there is a map in the tutorial that will show you how the site is broken down - there is, for example, an entire area dedicated to oem suspension, and an area dedicated to aftermarket suspension
we are indeed here to help - what gets weary sometimes is the repetition of generic questions like "what kinds of problems can i expect with a 968?", "will these wheels fit?", "what kinds of brakes should i run?", "what kinds of modifications can give me more power?"
these may seem like valid questions to you, and i suppose they would to anybody - however, the answers are already here and easy to find - doing some reading and searching will not only likely answer most of your questions, but also show you a lot of things you probably didn't think about
lol - of course, calling pete works too
so, have fun - read up - learn what others have done and why - see what makes sense to you - feel free to jump in anywhere - make friends - there are a ton of people here to help, and they love to do it