[Winston968]

I've recently put a deposit on a '92 model Tiptronic Coupe. It's Amazon Green (I think), with 166000 Kms on the odometer. It's in good condition. There are a few things that need attention, nothing serious. And the price reflects the condition.

It's been nearly 10 years since I've owned a Porsche (previously a 944). Not owning one has been nagging at my soul since I sold the 944. It's definitely the right time.



So I should be happy ...

BUT

The wife is not too happy about the whole thing. And she won't tell me why, of course.

She has her own car for commuting and for the family, so it's not like her motoring needs are being neglected.

Originally, the 968 was going to make us a 3 car family, but my other car was recently written off in an accident. So I need a car in any case.

We are planning on having another child, so we will need a bigger car in the future. But I think it's premature to buy a family car now, just in case we have twins (not likely but possible) and need a mini-MPV.



Hopefully, she'll come around when I take delivery. I've already set the expectation that there will be some moderately high maintenance involved. And my last car was pretty high maintenance, and that was bought new.



Anybody else faced the same situation?

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[Anchorman]

The better question would be "Anybody else NOT faced the same situation?" (other than, of course, single or female owners). In my case, I've nearly (but only nearly) gotten my wife convinced that my 968 is equivalent to playing golf - greens fees, balls, clubs, etc. When you play golf, the cash outflow never ceases, and when you own a 968, the...well, you get the picture. What you can't put a price on, though, is the "smile factor". All of that said, though, don't expect her to come around unless she drives the car - which my wife doesn't.

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[rhudeboye]

[quote name='Winston968' post='49146' date='Mar 13 2008, 12:21 AM']The wife is not too happy about the whole thing.

Originally, the 968 was going to make us a 3 car family...



I've already set the expectation that there will be some moderately high maintenance involved...

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Anybody else faced the same situation?[/quote]



Always have a clear frank discussion about major purchases. It's a sign of respect for your mate and I'm sure you would like her to do the same. That said, my wife and I had many discussions early on, way back before we could even afford a 2nd car. She knew my passion for sports cars and how much I love driving so we set priorities. We needed to pay down our debt 1st, which gave us room for another car note (car #2). Then we worked at getting a bigger house. After all that was done, there was no longer need to discuss anything. She knew exactly what was coming next. Its also responsible way not to let your desires put your fam in trouble financially. These things are nice cars but maintenance and resale value is something to consider. Meaning should you need to unload the car for an emergency, don't expect this to happen over night without taking a big loss.

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[968rz]

I used the barter system ( <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/dry.gif" class="smilie" alt="" /> and a little trickery (sp?)),

Wife wanted a bigger house (we really needed it) so a deal was made "you can get a house if I get the 968 I've always wanted" and she agreed. <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/ohmy.gif" class="smilie" alt="" />

I made sure to bring it up in front of everyone we knew so I had witness'. 2 years later when a car came around that I liked I called her on it and enlisted the witness' (can't deny it now! <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/wink.gif" class="smilie" alt="" /> ). She wasn't happy I won this one (woman law states men are not allowed to be happy once married <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/sad.gif" class="smilie" alt="" /> ) but once I told her she could drive the 924 she chilled a bit, that though created a monster, Now we are starting to look for a 356 or 912 for her. <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/rolleyes.gif" class="smilie" alt="" />

Porsche is an addiction that needs no cure.

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[kodomokid]

One of the things that I have come to understand in a short while, been married for only 10 months but together for 6 years, is that I have to make my wife feel involved in the decision. When it comes down to it, she is just concerned about how this will affect our future, which is definitely a good thing. I mean right now I want a 911, but she is making me sell one of my other toys if I want to get it. I told her the 968 stays not matter what. But we sat down and talked about it. I told her that I would take additional steps to find a way to cut down our other expenses as well. I'm sure you know all of this already so sorry if this has become a little redundant. Just talk to her to reassure her that you will take care of things when and if issues arise.



Congrats on the car. Post some pictures when you take delivery of it.

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[flash]

even better if you can work it out so that it's "her" decision



i just went through this with the change from the 325 to the M3 - i wanted something more fun - she wanted a DB7 - i wanted another 968 - she liked her 325 - i suggested she drive an M3 to see if she liked how that car rode



from there, it was all her - she had a blast searching for the car, and now buying stuff for it



but, i get to drive it

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[Georges]

Could be worse you could have a 944 and a 968 and have to explain that to her. I did for about 3 years. Now down to the 968.



She knows how I feel about the car. But she made me proud to participate in autocross and then become competitive. She likes the 968 too now.

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[4matic]

I have a cat. He doesn't really like the Porsche because it's too low to hide under comfortably but he doesn't complain either..

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[Gotter]

Similar story, had the 944, but it had to go once we got a family underway... traded 2 for 1 for the Subaru, but I hav ebeen saying for almost 5 years now... "I'm gonna get a 968, I'm gonna get a 968..." I think she half thought it would never happen, but now I'm on the verge of obtaining said dream and popping my 968 cherry.



The deal I made was to get her a house. She seems happy enough with it, but I'm sure once she drives it, she'll see why it's so addicting! <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/smile.gif" class="smilie" alt="" />

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[rxter]

The 968 makes 5 cars that I am now paying for, and 3 of them are mine. So much for greenhouse gas eh? Wife thinks I am crazy. Then she turns on Extreme Makeover - Home Edition. I'm crazy?



I go have a smoke, go for a drive in the hills, create some more CO2, and smile all the way.



I've been married over 25 years, and I've always had some toy that kept me sane. Boats, cars, skis, whatever. Now it the 968. The fastest, sweetest marriage saver that there is.



Here's a thought. "I bought it for you honey. It helps me keep my stress down so that I have more time and love for you when I'm home." Use a nice syrupy voice and you can't loose.

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[RPM]

I'm just plain lucky. My wife is a sports car nut and loves driving the 968. She grew up driving Austin Healeys. Her sister had a 356 and a 912. Some of our first conversations were about sports cars. Her biggest compaint against her first husband was that he once bought her an Aerostar. She refused to drive it.



My problem now is what she drives. We were looking at a turbo Volvo V70 and she demanded to know, "why do I have to have the boring car?" I bought her an S60 T5 instead. The big labrador just has to squeeze in the back. I think I have convinced her to get a V70R next.

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[gryphon]

My first 968 replaced my BMW. My second 968 replaced my wife.



'nuff said.



Tom

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[rhudeboye]

[quote name='gryphon' post='49203' date='Mar 13 2008, 02:33 PM']My first 968 replaced my BMW. My second 968 replaced my wife.



'nuff said.



Tom[/quote]

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[rxter]

One more thought. The wife loves the looks she gets with the blond hair cruising the 101 in a cab. That sells.

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[94SilverCab]

Hey Ralph,



Funny, I bought my wife an S60 T5 also, now I'm thinking an S40 DD for myself...I love the features.



I had the Porsche before I had the wife, so she knew what she was getting. I have, over time, convinced her that the 968 is a much better hobby than, drugs, gambling or other women. She has attended (several) events with me and we have both come to look forward to seeing our Porsche friends.



I do have "financial approval" to purchase a windscreen for the cab...just doesn't make as much sense as an RS Barn header if you ask me...hmmm...both? LOL



Regards,



Jay

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[gryphon]

Tell the wife that the four nights you did NOT spend with Ashley Alexandra Dupré @ $4300/night paid for the 968.



Tom

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[PorscheDude]

Jay,

Buy the header.

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[Kim]

Haven't had a problem at all. Started with the 944 and wife 1. Future wife 2 saw the 944 and liked it. Sold the 944 to pay for wife 1. Bought the 968 coupe to replace the 944 3 years later. Wife 2 said it was "too bumpy". Bought the cab on a whim - it was there and I was keen. She loves it. Bought the Cayenne to be safe in winter. Can't argue with that.



The odd ring or other similar trinket helps to smooth it over a bit too, of course. She also has 21 cats, none of which I like at all. 7 cats per Porsche - I like those odds!

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[968Z]

Your money, you earned it. If you have to ask permission? Yikes..... <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/biggrin.gif" class="smilie" alt="" />

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[hot968]

[quote name='gryphon' post='49287' date='Mar 14 2008, 01:25 PM']Tell the wife that the four nights you did NOT spend with Ashley Alexandra Dupré @ $4300/night paid for the 968.



Tom[/quote]







Ha! Ha! got a real kick out of this thread! You guys come up with some things!!!Funny <img src="/forum/images/smilies/968/smile.gif" class="smilie" alt="" />

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