Regajohn,
Welcome.
The DME relay issue is pretty easy to fix - - unless you're in the middle of nowhere when it sticks on you.
Happened to me on my drive back from Tennessee to Nevada just a couple days after I bought it. I stopped in Colorado at a friends house, left the car there for a week and returned for the final portion of the drive home, but it wouldn't start. I figured out it was a bad DME relay, but where to get one?
SO I think it's not a bad idea to have one in your trunk or glove compartment along with extra fuses, etc...just in case. (BTW, I put in newer fuses that light up when blown, so you can easily figure out which one to replace)