your mixing up of terms makes this more difficult than it meeds to be.
shocks are dampers. damping is what shocks do. it is the only thing shocks do. any change in spring rate from a gas charged shock is minimal and only as a result of the pressure charge. all shocks do is slow down the spring and prevent it from cycling.
changing of valving does not change the need for any particular spring rate. that is determined by the weight of the car, the various centers of gravity, the roll centers of the suspension, and the desired attitude of the car in a corner. all valving changes can do is alter the frequency and amplitude of the spring movement. if changing valving is resulting in a spring rate change, then you have the wrong valving design (wrong shock) for the springs on that car, whatever car it is.
we are also not talking about a race car. the thread is about a DE car. DE is NOT racing.
on that note though, it should pretty obvious to most people that this is not a great car for racing. sure, people do it (heck, they race pickup trucks too) and while there are some truly odd ducks out there that want to race this car (for that matter i know a guy who races a 2CV), and you have to love them for being that special, but it's a bit like bringing a mule to a horse race. you can buy the best saddle, feed it the best food, give it the best training and the lightest shoes, but in the end, it's still a mule. that's why you pretty much only see them in pca events. it's kind of like the special olympics for cars. you do see a couple of them doing well in other areas, but i tend to think that it's the driver and not the car at play, and that the particular driver could do almost as well in a shopping cart.
as for the bushings in my car, that is irrelevant. i am not talking about my car. none of this has anything to do with my car, but as long as we are on the subject, you have it exactly backwards. i tried other shocks on my car (bilsteins, konis, and kybs), and it was actually worse. as it turns out, the rubber bushings actually help dampen the gas charge effect, as they provide some resistance to that. this is a double edged sword. spherical bushings can allow the shocks to move very fast and be very responsive, but they also transmit more impact force. rubber is a bit more forgiving.
the bilsteins that i have experienced in the cars that i know that have them have been some of the worst road feel i have come across. without exception, those who have bought them regret it or have complained about them, in varying degrees from minor nuisance to wanting them out of the car. i tried them and i could not wait to get out of the car. i gave them away at a swap meet. maybe i'm old and cranky. maybe i'm spoiled. maybe i've just driven what a properly sprung and shocked car should feel like.
the konis yellows really aren't any better, but they are cheap.
the kw's i've heard owners talk about seem to be pretty much the same.
the problem is availability of a really good shock. even the ones i have aren't perfect, and i don't have high hopes for the life expectancy, based on having to replace them recently due to squeaking, which was the fluid moving so fast internally that it made a noise. they aren't particularly cheap either.
by the way, for anybody else reading, i don't sell shocks, won't sell shocks (other than my hand-me-downs), nor do i have any deals with any shock companies, nor have i received any free shocks. so, i have no vested interest in any choice. i drive the car, feel the ride, and make the choice. i let others drive it, feel the ride, and let them make their choice.
so, you have to decide what's important to you, and balance ride quality against response rate against your budget. i choose to have the car stable, and let the suspension do what it is supposed to do, which is keep the body of the car in as close to the same orientation as possible, while absorbing and adapting to the changing loads. i choose to set the car up for what i do with it 85% of the time.
everybody else can do what they want.
i am happy to help point anybody to the countless resources to support what i have been saying.
again, this is all pretty simple stuff to find and very easy to read about. the shock companies are all pretty good about putting this information out there.