Woo-hoo! The flywheel-ectomy is complete! I managed to remove the last bolt, which I had slightly damaged, by wedging a 3-1/8" wide piece of old baseboard material between the back side of the head of the wrench, and the inside of the bell housing. And I noticed that fortuitously, one of the bolts holding the torque tube to the bell housing was exactly where I had wedged the board, so I was able to loosen this bolt, slide the wood piece in, and then tighten the bolt against the board. This allowed me to apply a significant amount of pressure against the driver into the head of the bolt, which kept the driver in position while I was turning the breaker bar. So, the deed was done, without spending a dime on a fancy bolt extraction kit, and it only took a few minutes.
Pulling the flywheel wasn't too difficult, and I was very careful to make sure I was in position to catch it. What a mess behind the flywheel! I think the rear main seal must have given up its ghost years ago, judging by the amount of gunk back there. So the next steps are to clean things up back there, pull the old RMS, fabricate a mini-press as Eric_K explains, and then pressing the new one in. I don't have the new single mass flywheel yet, so I will then move on to other items, probably starting with the replacement of the transmission input shaft seal. If I can replace it without pulling the tranny, I'll take pictures, and post a DIY.