I have a 2007 model 2.0T Passat (built in Germany). I would never buy another VW again.
There have been significant problems with my car including:
coil pack failures
air conditioning compressor replaced
power window multiple failures
immobiliser failure
turbo pcv failure
shock failure
various electrical gremlins
paint peeling off trim
Look at Edmunds car reviews and see what you think.
Having said that, I have friends that have GTI's and haven't had many problems, and others that have had to replace the DSG box in the first year.
Next family car will be BMW or Porsche.
If you want an R for the power, just get a GTI and reprogram the ECU to boost power to 184kw/247hp.
Eric