Thanks for all the tips guys.
Porsche: who makes the "anti seize" paste"? I need to get some of that.
Rhude: is there a technical or brand name for the special socket that I might be able to get on what's left of the mangled lug?
As far as torque wrenches go, I'm on my 2nd one. The first one, a Craftsman, was NOT replaced by Sears. They say it does not qualify for the lifetime guarantee.
No bruise yet. Thanks again, guys. Please feel free to chime in with answers.
Cheers!
-Scott