i just wonder what "clean it up" meant to them. to me, that's take off .002" or so, just to be sure i had a smooth surface. any irregularities could result in lifting. my head was "dead flat" too, but still had irregularities that would have resulted in lifting.
as for the mixture issue, yup. when the mixture goes lean, it reduces the effective octane rating. heat has the same effect.
running 93 octane (90 RON + MON/2) will cause the knock sensors to back off the timing. the problem is that they can only back it off so far. after that, you get detonation. while the kit is tuned to 91 octane (RON + MON/2), i would not consider any such high speed run without running 95 octane (93 RON + MON/2)
the other thing to consider is the effectiveness of the fueling system. if you are going to run extended high rpms, you must be certain that the fuel pump is outputting the maximum volume, and that it is getting to the cylinders. at extended high rpms, the system is going to use every drop of fuel. if there is anything at all less than 100%, you will not have enough fuel to keep things happy.
checking pressure is not good enough. if you closed off the injectors, the pump would still make full "pressure" but not be outputting enough volume. think of it like your garden hose. when you squeeze it off, the pressure increases, but the volume decreases. the same thing can happen in your fuel system.
the fuel filter must be completely clear of any obstructions. the least bit of gunk in there can easily drop your system volume.
the injectors must be completely cleaned, balanced, and up to snuff
i have always said that this kit is at the ragged edge of fueling at the very top. the injectors are maxxed out over 6k rpm. a quick look at the dyno charts shows that the mixture starts to head toward lean again way up top. that isn't a problem normally, and even on the track you don't get there for long, which has so far not shown itself to be a problem. holding it up there though is asking for trouble.
in order to do what you want to do, i think you will also need to change to a colder plug.
before attempting any such run, i would also be sure to have an air/fuel meter installed.
the upside is that the Stage 2 addition kit should address all of this. too late for this engine, but should prevent such things in the future.
feel free to ring me up to discuss any of this.