Bob, this “ I don’t understand how youth go out or order out many nights a week “ is something I have also wondered for many years ; having been a guest of the insurance industry, which prefers to conduct business with their customers in “entertainment” settings ( wining & dining ), and as often as possible, at some of the most expensive venues, I have watched in amazement not just a couple of young people here and there, but multitudes of them ( in fact they were the majority ) downing $ 15 to $ 25 cocktails, drink after drink, for hours ..and packing restaurants where you can hardly escape for under $ 100 per person..( and that’s without wine ) .. I can understand Los Angeles / Hollywood / Beverly Hills where I witnessed a lot of this , “ kids “ likely spending their very tolerant and wealthy parents’s money, but my business associates tell me they see this scene just about everywhere else in the country’s major cities. Maybe you’re right, it could be “ damn the torpedoes and live for the day “ philosophy , and “ savings be dammed “ , but then somebody has to come up with those massive amounts for the down payments on those million dollar homes so there must be plenty of cash to go around . I’m well within the “5%” as they call it , and for the first five of the last 10 years even in the 1% class ( but probably not even anyway near the 26% here in Silicon Valley , big to mention Beverly Hills ) and yet while I feel fairly secure financially, I don’t feel anyway near what one would call wealthy to the point where I could spend a lot of money on going out every other night, and constant vacations, spending with abandon, and carefree…and I absolutely shudder at the thought of buying a $ 2 million house ..even though if we sell ours, ( which we bought in 1997 ) after all the federal capital gains taxes and state taxes, we might just break even to buy one. But in this area, now, I’d have to downsize to nearly half , buy a much older house , and if I’m lucky with 1/4 of the property ( backyard land ) .